Sure I'll Do The Bridal Shower - Now What
By Submitted By: Debbie Jones
Sure, I'll Do The Bridal Shower! Now What? She's gone and done it. She found Mr. Right and now they're getting married. And when the mother of the bride asked who would host the bridal shower, you readily volunteered. Now what? Ideally, you volunteered about three months ahead of the main event. This gives you time to plan a shower that will take place 6 – 8 weeks before the wedding. Of course, it doesn't have to take that long! Showers, especially among intimate friends, can be pulled together on practically a moment's notice. Here are some steps to help your planning go smoothly. 1. Talk with the bride to see if she has any dream shower ideas. If possible, incorporate as many of her desires as possible into the plans, while also leaving room for some surprises. Also work with the bride to develop a guest list and to get addresses and emails for invitations. 2. Select the date and time. Bridal showers are normally 6 – 8 weeks before the wedding, but this can vary widely. Showers are generally held on weekends, but they can also be during the week. Try to make the time and day convenient for as many as possible, including important out-of-town guests. 3. See if any of the bride's family wants to help plan. While the mother of the bride is probably focused on the wedding itself, a sister, aunt or grandmother might be especially glad to contribute to the shower. 4. Set yourself a budget. If you're a member of the wedding party, see who else of the attendants might want to chip in. Don't forget the groomsmen! Especially those in the bride's family. 5. Decide the shower theme, such as lingerie or house ware. Good themes can also revolve around the bride's or the couple's interests, so everyone can see the connection. Also, will the shower be girls only, or co-ed? This will impact your invitations and theme selection. 6. Finalize the guest list, and send invitations. Try to